Christian Singles - Know How to Get (Almost) Anything You Want in the First 90 Days of 2006

There is an overlooked spiritual law in the Bible that works for and against) everyone on earth, whether they know it or not, whether they are Christians or not.

It works to either bring everyone their desires or push them further away.

It works alike for everybody.

The purpose of this message is to identify this law and uncover its 3-step application… to ensure that it works for us and not against us.

Why is this important for you?

Because once you grasp the simple secrets I’m about to share here, you can virtually guarantee that your desires will manifest... within the first 90 days of 2006.

Without fail.

Background

It is a well-known truth that what you focus on (and share) expands or increases. The more you focus on the things you want, the more of those things you manifest in your life.

Now the reverse is also true. The more you focus on what you don’t want, the more of those things you manifest in your life.

The problem is that 95% of people on this planet live within a matrix of fear, where they are programmed to be afraid of everything.

And there’s a huge danger in that… because, to put it simply, we always attract what we focus on.

In the Old Testament book of Job 3:25 we read:

“For the thing that I greatly feared has come upon me, and what I dreaded has happened to me.”

This is Job’s confession just after he was struck by massive disaster. He says he was already “greatly afraid” of this very thing.

You know what?

That fear and dread activated a powerful spiritual law and opened the door for disaster to happen in his life and family!

That is reason enough to pray in this manner from time to time:

“Every spirit of fear, loose your hold upon my life in the name of Jesus.”

“I reject the spirit of fear; I claim the spirit of power and of a sound mind in the name of Jesus.”

The law we are looking at is called the Law of Attraction. It works on every thing that God created. It can work for good. It can work for evil. The law itself is neutral.

If you focus on things that you fear and worry about, you end up attracting more and more of those things into your life.

But things need not be this way.

Your 90 Day Desire

If you’ve read my ebook, “Prayer DNA Secrets,” you’ll already be familiar with the story of Joannie. She was the one who really insisted that I create my website so this kind of message could get out to more people.

That was after she had first-hand encounter with the concept of using simple prayer "points" to attract whatever you desire.

So I got her permission to use her as a case study here to explain something I call “core beliefs” and...

how they can shape your personality, create your future and determine your ultimate destiny.

Joannie’s Case

Joannie was one of my early students. She was blessed with a great job, wonderful loving family, and good health.

But a time came that she lost that cushy job, her family fell apart, and the issue of money really became a problem.

In a few short weeks, she became an emotional and financial wreck.

For now, we are just going to focus on what happened in her financial life. (I covered how she was able to recover from marital disaster elsewhere on my website.)

Why?

Because money is such a big issue for so many people. Over 90% of the emails I receive contain woeful tales about money.

Here are some interesting facts you may not know about money.

Research has shown that:

· Money is the leading cause of disagreement in marriages · People have more fantasies about money than sex · 92% of people will rather be rich than find the love of their lives · The biggest stress inducer in people’s lives is money · People worry more about money than their marriages or health

And here’s a shocking fact:

5% of lottery ticket buyers buy 51% of all lottery tickets sold

It’s unfortunate that even Christians are getting involved in this too).

Now, back to Joannie…

She grew up in a family where money (actually, the lack of it) was a huge issue.

Her parents would always tell her (or imply) that:

· There’s never enough money

· They always have to be on the lookout for some impending danger that’s going to take away all the money (maybe you’ve heard the expression, “saving for a rainy day.”)

What do you suppose her reality became about money?

1 There’s never enough 2 She’s eventually going to lose what she has

Now, here’s the sad part…

Even after she became an adult and she earned enough in her profession (an amount that most people will consider very substantial) she still didn’t have enough.

No matter how much she earned, she was always just getting by.

And of course she was afraid to lose what she had (which she did on several occasions).

So as you can see, she inherited her parent’s money issues.

We all inherit our parents’ money issues unless we know how to change them

Core Beliefs

For Joannie, her core belief was, “there’s never enough money and she’s going to lose what she has… and she brought this belief system (unconsciously) from her childhood into her adult life… and into her Christian life, without even seeing what she was doing to herself.

Unknown even to her, she was always operating out of “there isn’t enough and I’m eventually going to lose what I have” mindset… and that became her reality.

Just as in Job’s case, the Law of Attraction was at work and she didn’t even know it.

It was her truth:

· No matter how well qualified… and how long and hard she worked, she always ended up with the same results.

· No matter how much money she earned (and it was a lot) she either just got by or she managed to lose it.

And all this time, she was praying… and worrying about how she was going to make more money.

What’s important to understand here is that her motivation for making money was based on her fear of not having enough and losing what she had.

And like Job in the Bible, that fear triggered the negative side of this important spiritual law… and dumped financial crisis into her life.

What turned things around for her

Sometime after her marital problem was disposed of by the Holy Spirit, we soon turned our attention to clear up the financial mess in her life.

What I shared with her is what I’m about to show you now.

First I showed her the root of the problem (what I’ve just explained)… and pointed out what she’d been missing all along.

Simple Principle… Far-reaching Results

I shared the principle with her that extremely wealthy people have been living by for years and, interestingly enough, sometimes without even knowing that they were doing it.

She realized all she had to do was follow those principles and she could produce the same results.

She learnt how to pray and attract the money she desired.

She discovered it wasn’t too hard to do.

As she told me later, it was a shock for her to find out that it’s not what you do that brings money. She now believes (like I do) that almost any legitimate system or strategy can be used to generate money, or even create massive wealth, once you understand how to…

Focus your thoughts and prayers on what you desire, instead of worrying about what you don’t want

The 3 Steps

Here are the 3 simple steps you need to take to manifest your desires…

Step #1 – Your Belief

What’s your core belief about money?

· It’s never enough?
· You have no qualifications to make enough money?
· It is evil… or will take you to hell ?

You will have to change this belief and begin to agree with Scripture that money answers all things, i.e. it is there to meet your needs.

Concerning your desires, I am talking of your “core” desires here, i.e. something you really want with the whole fiber of your being. It can’t be something that somebody else wants for you.

You have to connect with what you truly desire… and once you do that, it is literally impossible to fail.

Your desire should be based on the belief that,

“My God shall supply all my needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus,”

... as clearly stated in Philippians 4:19.

This is the foundation… and it must be laid solidly for things to happen.

Step #2 – Your Focus

Your belief determines your focus. Now, focus your prayers on what you want in the first 90 days of like this:

· I desire breakthrough concerning _________ (mention it) within 90 days in the name of Jesus.

Notice the way this prayer "point" is structured.

When you pray this type of prayer, you shouldn’t just read them. You pray it for at least 5 minutes... every time you pray from now on!

And pray out loud and with fervency in your spirit.

Why?

So that you create the right “climate” in and around you… to receive the answers.

Think of these prayer points as launching a rocket. Let’s call this your rocket of desire.

The launching power is the Scripture backing it up, your faith that the promises of God will manifest in your life, and your expectation and excitement that you are really going to get what you want, no matter what happens.

Praying it aloud will help keep your thoughts and your prayers focused in the present on what you want instead of what you don’t want or the things you fear.

Step #3 – Correct your Thoughts in the Moment

This is the one crucial step that will determine whether you succeed or not… so stay with me here.

The Bible says in 2 Corinthians 10:5:

“Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.”

You will have negative or opposing thoughts from time to time.

When this happens it is crucial to refocus and change the thought in the moment it occurs… not 5 minutes later, not one hour later, not the next day, but right in the moment.

How?

By using the Scripture above you can pray like this:

· I cast down every negative thoughts in the name of Jesus

· I dismiss and disband from my heart every thought, image or picture of failure in these matters in the name of Jesus

· I cancel all ungodly suggestions against the speedy manifestation of my miracles in the name of Jesus.

Oh, how I love this!

This is what we call “lightning round prayers” because they happen spontaneously… all of a sudden you start praying them in your car, kitchen, office, everywhere you notice any ungodly thought rearing their ugly head.

Why is this so important to you?

The moment you allow a competing desire such as fear or worry to take over your thoughts, at a minimum that’s going to delay or throw your desires off-course and, more than likely, it is just going to cancel it out.

Don’t Lose Your Blessings

Let me repeat… this step is very crucial to your success. Because, if after you launch your rocket of desire something tells you:

“Are you really sure you can do this, or do you think this is going to work out…”

... if you don’t silence that thought immediately, then you’ve taken your rocket that was moving with great speed toward your goal and cut back the power.

The end result is:

Your rocket is going from soaring toward your goal to crashing into the ground.

That’s how the voice of your worry and fears push away the things that you desire. This voice of fear is energized by invisible vampires in the spirit realm… in order to cut the power that you sent your rocket of desire.

You can get your desires within the first 90 days!

That’s right.

You can launch your rocket of desire so it flies faster and higher and has more impact.

If you are in the habit of complaining, stop it.

If you have been thinking that external circumstances control your life, change that thought by renewing your mind with the blessed word of God.

Just step out, focus your prayers on that rocket of desire, and then take action towards achieving your desire when the Holy Spirit prompts you.

If you do this, I can assure you that you’ll receive what you desire… in the first 90 days of 2006!

Wishing you God’s Best in ‘06

Elisha Goodman

PS: I just concluded a 21-day Prayer Marathon with thousands of my online members... using these 3 simple steps I just described. Hundreds of praise reports (posted on the website) started coming in 3 days later... and have not ceased!

Elisha Goodman is an online prayer coach and author of five books, including his free book: Passion Prayer of Jesus the Christ. His f.ree online prayer coaching ministry (http://www.firesprings.com) has helped thousand all over the world to grow spiritually as well as in the areas of health, wealth and relationships. Thousands participated in his recent 21-day Prayer Marathon that witnessed the manifestation of new cars, houses, money, new relationships, and emotional and physical healing. For more on his coaching sessions here: http://www.firesprings.com/dnabook.htm

Online Dating: How to Overcome the Stress and Nerves With the First Date

As an individual raised with little opportunity to develop social skills, I had a particularly difficult time with the dating scene. I am happily married now, but during my years of dating, I felt that it would never happen. With the many years using online dating services, I have learned many usefull ways of establishing positive initial interaction. In this article I will share with you ideas that will give you a little more ease with dating and coping with the anxiety on the first date.

First, there are a few questions we must address and bring out into the open. How much should we get to know the potential date before meeting? What discussion or prefacing is required with your potential date prior to the meeting? How does this potential date feel about you, or does this person also share in this anxiety? After the rendezvous is established where will you meet to insure safety, enjoyment and relaxation?

Lets dive into the first question: How much should we get to know the potential date before meeting? This question begs of the actual legitimacy of the potential date. Is this, person really genuine? What is this persons background? These questions are not as easy to answer, but we can start with the following. The method of communication is incredibly important. Phone communication although a little nerve racking, can break the ice and establish an initial understanding of who this person is. Try to avoid creating a mental image of this person as this can really increase expectations and also give the other person an unfair disadvantage (i.e. relating the voice to a physical mental image). The phone conversation can also shed light on this person's general character.

This leads to what discussions or prefacing is required. It is important to acknowledge that this place we live is very diverse and the person's character is one of the most important attributes of desirability. Be softly direct when inquiring about his or her background without invoking the feeling that you are drilling the person which is a real "turn-off". I have used this idea many times which turn's out to be a really enjoyable exercise. Write down a few background questions to ask prior to calling the potential date and go from there. The conversation can take on with its own energy from there and it will be very easy to get a good feeling for the person. That is to say, if the person is not forthright, it will most likely come through in the conversation.

In most cases, the other person will exhibit the same anxiety as you. Keep this in mind, as it will help your nerves a little. Being confident, honest, direct and respectful will help you and the date feel an increased level of comfort whether your on the phone, or on the first date.

On this first date, make sure that you select, or mutually agree to a place that will help the date flourishes but keep the other person wanting more. Obviously, you should select a meeting place that is well lit and where there will be many eyes watching you for increased safety. However, the place that you will spend the most time should be softly lit so that most of the concentration can be focused on the content of the conversation and less on physical characteristics. More importantly, span the first date no more than that of a small snack. You can consider this a "weed-out" session. If there is chemistry during the date, he or she will leave waiting more. Conversely, if there is no chemistry, not much time was lost and not much money was spent.

Remember, these important ideas to engender ease and confidence during the initial contact through online dating services. Choose a method of communication prior to the meeting that will help you determine the persons forthrightness. Understand that the other person is probably feeling the same level of anxiety to which you can offer the comfort. Finally, choose a place that demonstrates safety and allows for a short but memorable experience.

Patrick Hood-Daniel is an Urban Designer/Architect that pays special attention to our social atmosphere in relation to our physical environment. He is also the developer of http://www.DATINGandDATING.com an online dating service where members can find dates in a totally unique way.

Dating Tip: Don't Be Too Grateful

Gratitude is transformative. When you're grateful for your blessings, you're happy. You're radiant. You attract men, loyal friends, and good jobs. You lure birds from the trees.

But there is definitely such a thing as being too grateful.

Here's an example: A woman (let's call her Audrey) starts dating a guy (let's call him Doug). Doug is by far the most handsome guy she's ever dated. In fact, he's the first guy she's dated in quite some time. She can't believe her good fortune because, in the looks-oriented world we live in, Audrey has been told she's lacking. She figures she hit the jackpot with Doug.

Her friends can't believe her luck. Heck, her own parents can't believe her luck.

And Doug is really, really nice. He's nice to Audrey about 85% of the time. Sure, he asks to borrow her car a lot. He doesn't always show up when he says he will. He goes out with the boys more often than he does with her. She's caught him in a couple of lies.

But so what! Who cares if sometimes he's a bad boy? Most of the time, he's great. Doug makes Audrey feel special (most of the time). He makes her feel beautiful (most of the time). Hey, he's a guy, and he's good looking. She's just grateful she has a boyfriend.

There are too far many women like Audrey on this planet, and they send me the saddest letters. They get taken for a ride (sometimes in their own cars), and eventually end up picking themselves out of a ditch while Prince Charming moves on to his next victim.

I personally know two guys who consistently date Audreys precisely because they're "grateful." I firmly believe the world is full of wonderful men, but there exists a certain breed of loser who target women that suffer from poor self-images. The goal is to take such women for all they're worth.

Beware.

If your self-image isn't great, you must postpone dating until it is. Stay home, for Pete's sake! Changing your beliefs about yourself should be your sole aim. You simply cannot attract a good man until you do.

Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of "How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams." Sign up for free dating tips at http://www.marrysmart.com Check out her blog at http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com

Weeding through 100 Free Online Dating Sites

There are some good reasons to choose a free online dating site for your adult dating online services. Pay sites expect a commitment, maybe you are thinking about online dating but are not sure how to go about it or if you will be comfortable. Free online dating sites allow for you to explore the field, learn a little about the etiquette involved, and get your feet a little wet before you decide that dating someone through the internet is right for you.

While there are over 100 free online dating sites to choose from, make sure that they are truly free before logging on. Some "free" adult dating sites really mean free sign up, or free thirty day trial, so read the fine print before choosing a screen name.

Free online dating services may also be hiding inappropriate people. Unfortunately, because so many of the sites are free, they can not afford the software necessary to run 24 hour a day spot checks on incoming and outgoing emails that pay site have. You may have to weed through some undesirables, on several free sites, in order to find a reputable one. Also, please continue to be aware that people aren't always who they say they are, especially on free adult dating sites, so do not give out any personal information which might make it easy for these people to find you in person, at first.

While this is a concern for all chat rooms on the internet, it is especially important information for you to know if you are logging on to a teen dating service or a Christian dating service, because there are pedophiles and hate mongers out there pretending to be someone else.

After researching many free sites, we have found that the most reputable ones are the ones which are the hardest to get into. A long essay on why you want to be involved in online dating is not a bad thing, it weeds out the people who don't want to take the time to set up a sincere profile, so don't give up, go through the hoops, read the user reviews, and take your time searching for the right free adult dating website, there are many good ones out there.

Erick Shipmon has been an online marketer since 1997. He currently is the President and CEO of http://www.eDatingPlanet.com which is quickly becoming the hottest and most desirable online dating community on the planet.

eDatingPlanet.com online dating services include: E-mail, Live Chat, Live Video Cam, FREE VoIP Broadband Long Distance, and more!

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Christian Dating: An Overview

Everyone wants companionship. Whether it is casual dating or the search for a soul mate, single people have historically looked for new ways to meet new people. Matchmakers and dating services have been around for decades to help facilitate this search. Christian dating is just like regular dating, except that the singles searching for a mate are searching for a Christian mate—someone who has the same values, morals, and beliefs. Christian dating is a great way to find love, especially if you are looking for someone that not only shares your faith, but your ideals and your hopes.

In the past, singles who wanted to meet other singles could employ a professional matchmaker or utilize a dating service, such as video dating. They were able to meet and mingle with other singles throughout their city, state, or wherever the dating service could reach. Single Christians, on the other hand, relied on church related groups. These Christian singles have the opportunity to meet and mingle with other Christians through these church groups, but they are limited to the people that belong to their own church. They were missing out on all of the other people in their area that also had similar morals, values, and beliefs. While some groups from different churches may get together for mixers, many stay within their own congregation. Christian singles needed a way to contact other Christian singles in their community without pressure or expectation. Christian dating, as a service and business, evolved out of this need.

Christian online dating is one of the latest crazes on the Internet and there are several websites where Christians can find other Christians online. These sites make it easy for the Christian single, new to online dating, to get his or her feet wet, meet some nice people and maybe even find love.

Christian Dating Info provides detailed information on Christian dating services, sites, and advice. Christian Dating Info is the sister site of Jewish Dating Web.

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Author of Christian dating book to appear

Getting dumped was the best thing ever to happen to Rob Eagar.

Eagar spent years dating after a failed marriage, eventually gaining an insight to what makes a relationship successful. Eagar translated that insight into a Christian dating advice book he later self-published. The book, "Dating With Pure Passion" was recently picked up by a publisher and rereleased. The Stone Mountain native left a lucrative sales career to write and speak on Christian dating and relationships full time and has appeared on CBS' "The Early Show" and CNNRadio . Eagar is also a featured expert in DivorceCare's new videos

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Surfing for a Spouse

I'm 30 years old and debating whether to sign up for an online Christian dating service. I hear conflicting advice from other believers about going this route. Some say I shouldn't seek a husband; God will provide a mate in his time. Others encourage me to seek out eligible men to date. What do you think I should do?

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Where to Find Free Christian Dating Services

Christian dating services can fulfill different people’s needs. Some of these services require that members fill out in depth questionnaire so that they can be matched to other people with compatible profiles. Because these types of sites provide a matchmaking service, they charge a monthly or yearly subscription fee. The fee guarantees a commitment to the site from the subscriber, and the subscriber is offered an extra service that is not available on free sites.

There are, however, many free Christian dating services currently available. If a person is interested free Christian dating, he or she should be able to find these types of services through the church or parish in his or her area. A plethora of free Christian dating web sites has emerged recently. These sites offer subscribers the opportunity to search through a variety of personal profiles belonging to other single Christians.

Free Christian dating is a great way to find others who share specific beliefs, morals, and values. The only real requirement for most of these services is a commitment to a spiritual lifestyle, regardless of the denomination. However, some free Christian dating services may have certain demographic requirements, such as age or income level. These types of services simply narrow the search for their subscribers by limiting the dating pool through member requirements.

Many people find free Christian dating especially helpful when other free dating services do not appeal to them. They usually ensure a safe, moral environment where pressure does not exist for their subscribers. Since free Christian dating appeals to church going people, these services also provide assistance for any members with moral questions about aspects of dating. Free Christian dating has become popular with Christians of all denominations, as more people find out that it can provide a solid match between people who might be very compatible with each other.

Christian Dating Info provides detailed information on Christian dating services, sites, and advice. Christian Dating Info is the sister site of Jewish Dating Web.

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Christian Dating Goes Online

Numerous Chrisitan singles face the fact that getting the chance to meet other available Christians can be fairly hard. People in small worship services often find it's challenging to get to know a sufficient amount of eligible individuals, then again, singles in churches of larger size are often overwhelmed at the array of people.

For many eligible Christians, the opportunity of getting to know Christians from other worship services or even merely diverse faiths can be rare. Christian dating began when Christian singles devised a route to connect with other Christian singles in their community. The Christian dating service industry has since expanded as a service and business.

Some concerns often develop when people feel that Christian online dating is not a suitable way to meet people. The accuracy of a person's profile or bio and the truthfullness behind it can be a concern, however Christian dating services have done away with the road block of spiritual comparability.

Safety is a paramount priority of all online dating services and faith based dating websites offer the same degree of security today.

Christian online dating can be a fantastic path for eligible individuals who are frightened or troubled about the web based dating experience. A key benefit to Christian dating is the fact that many members follow a similar lifestyle with solid values, Everything considered, faith based online dating services are a great way to meet people in a fun, safe, atmosphere.

Mark Washburn is the founder and publisher of DatingPhd, a website dedicated to online dating, with information, tips, and advice. See more at http://www.datingphd.com

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Christian Dating Service and Dating Services

A Christian dating service can help single Christians meet one another and find companionship that is based on Christian principles and foundations. A Christian dating service can help thousands of Christians meet, and sometimes marry, others who share their values and faith. The Internet is an incredible access point for those looking into dating services. Now, most dating services begin with online applications and postings, letting email be the beginning point of a contact. Not every Christian dating service has the same philosophy, and not all dating services truly have a member's best interest at heart, but, with some research and investigating, signing up with a Christian dating service can bring new friends and a potential partner into a single's life.

Online, through the Internet there are a myriad of dating services. A Christian dating service is a service that has members who profess to be Christians, practicing the Christian faith of belief in Jesus Christ as the Son of God and the Savior of the world. Timeless faith is a common thread among Christian believers. Most Christians feel that to make a relationship successful, the common ground of faith in Christ is essential. Close relationships and marital bonds simply cannot happen without it. Dating services throughout the Internet are experiencing a high success rate, and Christian dating service providers are among those successes. With our fast pace society, and the wide open market that the Internet brings into our lives, Christian dating companies online seem to be the answer for the Christian singles scene.

There are cautions to be heeded when searching for dating services. This caution can apply to a Christian dating service as well. Many dating services charge costly fees, and make promises that cannot be kept. Also, the danger of meeting someone with ill intentions can always be a factor, when agreeing to meet a person in person. Selecting dating services that do background checks, or verify information will be best, and still, always use extreme caution when planning to meet a person you have only met via chatting online. Research and investigate a Christian dating service before paying for any membership fees or before receiving potential companion's emails.

A Christian dating service can provide needed friendships and relationships of support. Expanding our friendships and Christian fellowship around the globe is a good thing. However, God always has a plan for our future in an active status. While He may use dating services to introduce you to your future mate, a Christian dating service should not be seen as a way to fast forward God's plans. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end." (Jeremiah 29:11) Use balanced and good judgment when seeking friends online with dating services.

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Personal Values and Christian Dating

Personal values is an important point when it comes to Christian dating. Being a Christian means that you know what Jesus Christ did on the cross and, you are trusting Him to forgive you, and trusting in His death, burial, and resurrection to be enough to cleanse you of your sin. As a result of this you have allowed Him, through the Spirit of God to begin to work some changes in your life, bringing in a new value system. Personal values should be one of the anchors for any Christian dating.

Your personal values and convictions are a part of your character. They are more than just standards you live by. They are a part of whate defines who you are. That is not to say you can decide what values you want to define who you are and begin to live by them. These changes begin on the inside as the Spirit of God begins to work change in your heart. Then as you begin to follow His lead from the inside, your life on the outside begins to change. As a Christian dating you must remain true the changes that have taken place in your life. My love advice is to remain true to the one who has set love in motion within you - Jesus.

These new personal values should be a guide for you. Everyone you meet while dating, whether online dating or the old fashion way, should be judged against the values that have begun to be instilled in you. Online dating allows you to meet a lot of people. Online Christian dating is the same. And a lot of times you meet people who claim to be Christians but given enough time they will show the contrary. Before making any kind of commitment with someone you need to know whether your personal values match up.

If your personal values do not match up with the person you are dating and there doesn’t seem to be any sign of them ever doing so, you should move on. As your own personal values become part of the foundation of who you are, so does a couple’s personal values together become part of the foundation that defines the relationship. If there is disagreement in the area of personal values you can expect trouble down the road. This is an extremely important aspect of Christian dating.

In a relationship the personal values of each person make up the personal value of the couple. So you need to be solid in your own personal values, and be satisfied that the person you are with meets your expectations in the personal values department. Don’t think that if you stay with them and help them along you might be able to change them. More love advice – accept people as they are, if you can’t move on. Find someone who has the same values that you do. And be careful of people you meet on Christian dating sites as you would any place else.

Tony Tate the author of On line dating, a web site offering tips and advice on successful relationships and on line dating. For more information visit: http://www.1-on-line-dating.com

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